50 Things Every Young Gentleman Should Know

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50 THINGS

EVERY YOUNG

GENTLEMAN

SHOULD KNOW

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50 THINGS

EVERY YOUNG

GENTLEMAN

SHOULD KNOW

REVISED AND EXPANDED

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WHAT TO DO,
WHEN TO DO IT & WHY

JOHN BRIDGES | BRYAN CURTIS


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© 2006, 2012 by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis.

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Illustrations by Alicia Adkerson, Adkerson Design

ISBN 978-1-40160-465-3 (repackage)

ISBN 978-1-59555-319-5 (Orvis)

The Library of Congress has cataloged the earlier edition as follows:

Bridges, John, 1950–
  50 things every young gentleman should know / John Bridges and Bryan Curtis.
    p. cm.(Gentlemanners books)
  ISBN 978-1-4016-0294-9 (hard cover)
  ISBN 978-1-4016-0306-9 (SE)
  1. Boys—Conduct of life. I. Curtis, Bryan, 1960–II. Title. III. Title: Fifty things every young gentleman should know.
  BJ1641.B75 2006
  395.1’22—dc22

2006021523

Printed in the United States of America

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To Cooper Truman Burruss in the
hope he will believe good things, and
behave the right way, too
—J. B.



To Scott Sims a great sport and a
great nephew
—B. C.

CONTENTS

Introduction

1. Saying “Please”

2. Saying “Thank You”

3. Saying “Excuse Me”

4. Making an Apology

5. Accepting an Apology

6. Introducing Your Friends to Your Parents

7. Saying “Ma’am” and “Sir”

8. Asking Permission

9. Paying a Compliment

10. Accepting a Compliment

11. Knowing When to Keep Your Mouth Shut

12. Listening to and Talking to Adults

13. Shaking Hands

14. Meeting People with Physical Challenges

15. Accepting a Gift You Don’t Like

16.