Art of Seduction

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Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright Page

Dedication

Acknowledgements

Preface

 

Part One - the Seductive Character

the Siren

the Rake

the Ideal lover

the Dandy

the Natural

the Coquette

the Charmer

the Charismatic

the Star

the anti-Seducer

 

Part Two - the Seductive process

Chapter 1 - Choose the Right Victim

Chapter 2 - Create a False Sense of Security—Approach Indirectly

Chapter 3 - Send Mixed Signals

Chapter 4 - Appear to Be an Object of Desire —Create Triangles

Chapter 5 - Create a Need—Stir Anxiety and Discontent

Chapter 6 - Master the Art of Insinuation

Chapter 7 - Enter Their Spirit

Chapter 8 - Create Temptation

Chapter 9 - Keep Them in Suspense—What Comes Next?

Chapter 10 - Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion

Chapter 11 - Pay Attention to Detail

Chapter 12 - Poeticize Your Presence

Chapter 13 - Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability

Chapter 14 - Confuse Desire and Reality—The Perfect Illusion

Chapter 15 - Isolate the Victim

Chapter 16 - Prove Yourself

Chapter 17 - Effect a Regression

Chapter 18 - Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo

Chapter 19 - Use Spiritual Lures

Chapter 20 - Mix Pleasure with Pain

Chapter 21 - Give Them Space to Fall—The Pursuer Is Pursued

Chapter 22 - Use Physical Lures

Chapter 23 - Master the Art of the Bold Move

Chapter 24 - Beware the Aftereffects

 

Appendix A

Appendix B

Selected Bibliography

Index

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Robert Greene, author of The 48 Laws of Power, has a degree in classical literature. He lives in Los Angeles. Visit his Web site: www.seductionbook.com

 

Joost Elffers is the producer of Viking Studio’s best-selling The Secret Language of Birthdays, The Secret Language of Relationships, as well as Play with Your Food. He lives in New York City.

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