I
indicate certain ways in which I would prefer him to smite me or show me mercy. Anyway, I cede
to him much more than I retain, as what I give him comes from myself, but what I retain belongs
to the others, the very few others, that I love.
And I doubt our conversation troubles him, as He
doesn’t quite see it as a transaction and is aware of the good intentions with which I
approach him.
All the same … Sometimes I feel there is
something more, beyond that: the God with whom I have seen old men in synagogues struggling, the
God for whom I beat my breast, long ago, as a child, that God whose singularity I proclaimed
every morning, reciting my prayers.
‘God is one, and there is only one
God.’
Does not ‘God is one’ mean that God
is alone? Alone like us, perhaps, who receive our loneliness from him and for him bear it.
This clarifies so many things and obscures so
many more …
3
A long conversation with Ghiţă Blidaru.
In the end I told him ‘everything’, that same everything I feared and which he had
intuited at a glance. All I’ve been thinking about lately, everything written in the
notebook, all I haven’t written …
I spoke impulsively, quickly, and a great deal,
in fits and starts, jumping from one subject to another, doubling back. I expressed myself
badly, in my nervous disorder. But he has a way of listening that seems to simplify your own
thoughts, however poorly you express them. His mere presence creates order around him.
‘You should do something that connects you
to the soil. I still don’t really know what. Not law anyway, or philosophy, or economics.
Something to give you back your feel for matter, if you’ve ever had one, or that’ll
start to teach you, if you never have. A craft based on certitudes.’
I shrugged, despairing of such a vague solution.
And, anyway, had I really been seeking a solution?
But he continued:
‘Can you draw?’
‘Yes.’
‘Can you draw well?’
‘I’m pretty bad at what they call
“artistic drawing” at school. Quite good at technical drawing.’
‘How are you at maths?’
‘I don’t love it. I was good at it at
school, though unenthusiastic.’
I had no idea what he was getting at and replied
more in puzzlement than from curiosity. What happened next was astonishing.
‘Why don’t you become an
architect?’
I said nothing. Is he joking? Performing some
kind of experiment? Attempting to demonstrate to me how vain my ‘problems’ are?
Setting me up somehow?
Perplexed, I keep quiet – and he
doesn’t press it, and immediately changes the subject, leaving open the possibility that
we will return to it.
‘Anyway, think it over seriously.
It’s worth it.’
*
I’m very well aware that the
professor’s proposal is full of risks. I’ve never been overly concerned about my
‘career’ as I’m convinced that I will always be poor and accept that with good
grace – and yet, though what he proposes I do is not exactly an adventure, it certainly is
imprudent … Are the psychological motives impelling me to take such a leap really strong
enough for me to carry it through?
I’m confused and can hardly believe that he
has created these difficulties for me out of the blue.
*
‘Changing tack.’ Old emotional bonds
that I can’t break. In the end, what he’s asking me to do is quite easy. I had
settled on the idea of becoming a lawyer. Why? I don’t know. From habit, from being tired
of choosing, from lack of interest in a profession – any profession.
With a little effort, I could get used to seeing
myself as an architect. A simple matter of mental training.
I wouldn’t have done anything great in a
courtroom, and I won’t do anything great on a construction site. But it might not be
impossible for me to find there what I certainly would have missed out on: the feeling of
serving earth, stone and iron.
It should give me a feeling of fulfilment, of
calm. Perhaps the tranquillity I’ve been looking for.
*
No, I can’t do it. I have exams coming up,
classes, papers – too much for me to throw it all aside and start anew yet again.
I went to tell Ghiţă my decision, but
didn’t find him home, which I was glad of, I have to admit, because, however determined I
was to reject his proposal, I was sorry to eliminate all other options with a categorical
response. Il faut qu’une porte soit ouverte ou fermée.
I didn’t find him home, and so I allowed
myself to keep the door half-open.
*
I’ll do it anyway. I lacked the courage to
utter a straight ‘No’, and I put forward all kinds of objections. He disposed of
them, one by one.
Isn’t it too late now, in the middle of
December, two months after registration?
No, it’s not. He’d take care of it
personally. He has good friends in Architecture and can manage it.
Won’t it be too hard for me to catch up
with the syllabus? Aren’t the classes too far advanced? Aren’t the exams too
near?
No, it won’t be hard. But if it is hard,
all the better.
The matter settled, there was nothing left for me
to say. I belong to architecture. He shook my hand heartily.
‘You know, I’m pleased we did this.
You’ll learn to tread solid ground.
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